Bastard Is Gone
Step 4:

Congratulations you have made it to the fun part! Whether you are throwing the B.I.G. party for yourself or you are throwing it for your friend, get organized , you want maximum exposure for your B.I.G. party. Think bachelorette party; now take it to another level. Regroup your bridesmaids and enlist their help (after all ,they probably tried to save you from getting involved with the Bastard in the first place).

However do not get Bachelorette Party and B.I.G. parties confused (See B.I.G Difference). Don't forget at a bachelorette party you're saying "Gentlemen, I am taking myself off the market and I am promising myself to one person for the rest of my life."

STOP! REWIND! You've got a do over. Your B.I.G. Party is all about announcing to the world that you are back! You're telling everyone you told the Bastard to go to hell and you are ready to party again!

Here is the unapologetic B.I.G Merchandising link. Blow this party up - you are staging an event, because... Bastard Is Gone!